You And Me (Lifehouse Song)
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"You and Me" is a song by American
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band Lifehouse. It is the first single released from their third studio album, ''Lifehouse'' (2005). The track was written by lead singer
Jason Wade Jason Michael Wade (born July 5, 1980) is an American musician best known as the lead vocalist and guitarist of the alternative rock band Lifehouse. Career Lifehouse At the age of 15, Wade co-founded Lifehouse (originally called Blyss) wit ...
and American record producer Jude Cole. It was recorded and produced by
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at his home studio in
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. The song was first released via digital download on January 28, 2005. It was then solicited to
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radio on March 15, 2005. An extended wedding version of the song was then released on July 26, 2005. The song received positive reviews from critics, who noted that the song was more mellow and stripped-down than their previous singles. It became a commercial success, charting in the top five in the United States and also charting in Australia and New Zealand. On May 19, 2005, the song was certified Gold by the
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for selling more than 500,000 units in the United States. In 2005, it became the ninth most downloaded song, according to
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. Because of its success, it appeared as the number one song on ''Billboards list of Top 40 Adult Pop Songs from 1996–2011 on March 16, 2011. A music video for the song premiered on
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on March 21, 2005, and features a couple as Wade sings in a train station. "You and Me" has appeared on many television shows, including ''
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'', ''
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''.


Background and release

The song was written by Lifehouse lead singer
Jason Wade Jason Michael Wade (born July 5, 1980) is an American musician best known as the lead vocalist and guitarist of the alternative rock band Lifehouse. Career Lifehouse At the age of 15, Wade co-founded Lifehouse (originally called Blyss) wit ...
and American record producer Jude Cole. It was recorded and produced by
John Alagía John Alagía is an American record producer, composer, mixer and co-founder of Drive Music. Alagia has worked with artists including Lukas Nelson, Paul Simon, Herbie Hancock, Dave Matthews, John Mayer, Jason Mraz, Serena Ryder, Brett Dennen, R ...
at his home studio in
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. In an interview with
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, Wade explained his experience working with Alagía, and said, "When we walked into John's house, we didn't know what to expect, and we get in there and the mixing board is in the living room, the B3 rganis in the kitchen and the piano is over there. And he's so nonchalant about all his stuff — there'd be a triple-platinum
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plaque sticking out from under the bed." "You and Me" was first released via digital download on January 28, 2005. It was then solicited to
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radio on March 15, 2005. An extended wedding version of the song was released on July 26, 2005. On May 16, 2005, a
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was issued in Australia.


Composition and critical reception

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called the song "a tender love-ballad" and noted how it would be "a perfect soundtrack for a wedding." Alternative Addiction said that the song was embraced by fans in the same way "
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" was when Lifehouse started as a band. According to the sheet music published at Musicnotes.com by
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, the song is set in 6/8 time with a "slow" tempo of 138
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(felt in 2 for 46 dotted crotchets per minute). It is composed in the key of
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with Wade's vocal range spanning from the low-note of B2 to the high-note of E4. The song has a basic
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of G5–G5/C–G5/F–G5/B–Em7–Dsus4–C.


Chart performance

"You and Me" debuted at number 92 on the ''Billboard'' Hot 100 for the week of February 12, 2005. It stayed on the chart for 62 non-consecutive weeks, and eventually peaked at number five. On the ''Billboard''
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chart, the song debuted at number 29 for the week of July 23, 2005. It eventually peaked at number one after it stayed on the chart for 34 non-consecutive weeks. The song debuted at number 29 on the ''Billboard''
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chart for the week of February 19, 2005. After moving around the chart for 39 consecutive weeks, the song peaked at number one for nine non-consecutive weeks. Because of its success on the chart, "You and Me" became the number one song on ''Billboards list of the Top 40 Adult Pop Songs from 1996–2011 on March 16, 2011. On the ''Billboard''
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chart, the song debuted at number 38 for the week of April 23, 2005. After moving around the chart for 31 non-consecutive weeks, the song eventually peaked at number three. "You and Me" debuted at number 37 on the ''Billboard''
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chart during the week of May 21, 2005. It eventually peaked at number four after it spent 26 consecutive weeks on the chart. On the ''Billboard'' Radio Songs chart, the track debuted at number 74 during the week of May 21, 2005. It proceeded to move around the chart for 26 consecutive weeks, until it eventually peaked at number nine. According to
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, "You and Me" was the ninth top selling digital song of 2005. On May 19, 2005, "You and Me" was certified Gold by the
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for selling more than 500,000 units of the song. The song also achieved international success. In Australia, the song debuted at number 30 on the
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for the week of May 29, 2005. That later became its peak after it spent four weeks on the chart. On the
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, "You and Me" debuted at number 39, which later became its peak after it spent only one week on the chart during the week of October 31, 2005. The song has also ranked at number 83 on ''Billboards Year-End Hot 100 singles of 2006.


Music video


Background

The music video, directed by Bill Yukich, premiered on
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on March 21, 2005. It was then released on
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for digital download on March 30, 2005.


Synopsis

The video starts with a woman exiting the taxi and going to the
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. A man exits a car and follows her. Wade then plays the first verse and first chorus in the
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of the L. A. Union Station. As the band plays the second verse, they are shown playing at the rooftop with Iron Mountain clearly visible. When the chorus plays again, they are shown at the roof with lights from the buildings of
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at night. When Wade sings the bridge, he is on the roof of the Roosevelt Hotel in
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. The man and the woman are also seen running in the boarding area of the Los Angeles Union Station. They later meet up and kiss in one of the boarding platforms of the station in front of a train which later starts to move. The video ends with the band sitting down in the waiting hall.


Track listing


Credits and personnel

Credits are taken from
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. *
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– Jason Wade, Jude Cole *
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– John Alagía * Mixing – Jeff Juliano *
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– Pete Hanlon, Jeff Juliano, Nathaniel Kunkel


Charts


Weekly charts


Year-end charts


All-time charts


Certifications and sales


Television appearances

On April 20, 2005, Lifehouse made a
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in the ''
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episode "Spirit" and performed "You and Me" among other songs on stage. It also appeared in ''
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'' episode "Life Interrupted" on July 17, 2005. Several months later, "You and Me" made two more TV appearances: first in the '' Boston Legal'' episode "Witches of Mass Destruction" that premiered on November 1, 2005, and then in the ''
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s episode "Much Too Much" that premiered on November 27, 2005. The song also appeared in the ''
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'' episode "Getting to Know You" on December 8, 2005, and in the ''
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'' episode "One Night" on March 19, 2006. On May 13, 2007, the song appeared in the pilot episode of ''
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''.


See also

* List of Hot Adult Top 40 Tracks number-one singles of 2005 *
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References

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